I realised that I can’t wait till 3pm, I have children to collect. Children to look after and I need to be prepared to put on a show and be happy for them.
So about 10 minutes ago I sent him this message
“I wish I could talk to you, but I can’t right now. It hurts too much. I can’t believe you would ignore me on my birthday.
I can’t help you anymore, you need to learn to help yourself. Me avoiding all male contact isn’t helping you, it’s reinforcing your beliefs that I can’t be trusted.
You will go through this with any girlfriend you have unless you can exclude them from all contact with males.
I love you but I can’t do this anymore. I’m sorry xxxx”
My friends all told me I was being stupid that he would realise what he had done and would be sorry today. I am so disappointed that they were all wrong. Since he hasn’t even replied to my message.